So sad, and so soon. I still have the pictures of him you posted several years ago.
So sad, and so soon. I still have the pictures of him you posted several years ago.
"I just remembered something that happened a long time ago."
It's so surreal! The house suddenly feels empty! On wednesday he ate late dinner with us outdoor, he even wanted some belly rubs! Couldn't even tell he's sick! Yesterday I got home from work and my mom says it's not looking good, he didn't eat, drink whole day. Around 8pm I tried to take him on a walk, and he could move just a few meters. That's when I knew it's time. Took him to vet clinic where they saw fluid around his belly, it was blood, and large mass. All they could do was ease his pain. Said my goodbye, kept holding him and cry! And then he simply feel asleep!
I'm very sorry for your loss, yoco. I had a cat that did exactly that. Near the end she got into my arms, then moved to her favorite place, fell asleep and that was it. I think she wanted to say goodbye but at that time I didn't realize it.
Reading this is heartbreaking... but as the saying goes, one day we're here, the next we aren't. The important thing, I think, is that both of you enjoyed your shared lives to the fullest.Originally Posted by yoco
"I just remembered something that happened a long time ago."
Cats have a sixth sense for these things.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oscar_(therapy_cat)
"I just remembered something that happened a long time ago."
Thank you!
We sure did! A lot of ppl said they've never seen a dog have such good life!
I've been told the best way to get through a loss of a beloved pet is to just get another one, as soon as possible. It takes your mind off it.
On an unrelated note, after nearly 20 years of being cat owner, I've decided to give it up. I've had many cats over the years that had good and fulfilling lives. They were greatly loved and gave unconditional love. But every passing got more difficult and we couldn't handle it anymore. On top of this, since last year, my life has gotten chaotic, in which I have no idea when things are done or they need to be done, always late and things just don't get done. This being said, I could no longer take of them so I had to give them away. They are in a better place now, good owners and houses. While they were here, I wanted them gone, and now I'm sad of how things have developed.
Feels a bit cheap, but I know as much as Jon Snow here.
Being afraid of this is why I don't have one, even though I could and I love kitties (but who doesn't?).every passing got more difficult and we couldn't handle it anymore. On top of this, since last year, my life has gotten chaotic, in which I have no idea when things are done or they need to be done, always late and things just don't get done. This being said, I could no longer take of them
"I just remembered something that happened a long time ago."
Yeah same. I was offered a kitten this weekend and while I can take care of it and love the crap out of it 90% of the year, there's that gap during the holidays and some travel for work I have to do where I literally have no one willing and living close enough to do it to fully close that last 10%. (big fat NO from my parents... :T )
I trust one friend enough to come in my home when I'm out to feed the cat, but she also happens to be that person I spend most of my time with when I'm not home. So chances of overlap are huge. She even suggested it herself, but it already happens that the next time I'm out for a couple of days, we're at a festival together and the cat would be stuck home alone. I would've adored that little cat but I also don't see it as an option to just not leave my home anymore for more than a couple of hours. It would also break my heart to have it just sit there, esp as a small kitten in a new home.
Same scenario here, and I have a policy of never leaving home for holidays and such if I won't be away for at least three full days (so that it's, you know, worth the effort and logistics involved). An indoor cat would suffer a lot.
"I just remembered something that happened a long time ago."
Then I hope you find it quickly enough, because some of us are still waiting for you to build that porn empire.
"I just remembered something that happened a long time ago."
The porn empire, yes, I remember that. The idea behind it was actually pretty simple: anything does with passion and commitment will skyrocket nowadays since everywhere else things are done because they have to be done or they follow the "good enough" way of working. In my work, nothing is released until it is perfect, or near it. I know that if I ever get into porn it'll be a huge success and possibly create new genres as well, which is needed given the state of the pornography industry.
Unfortunately, this was before depression a few years back, and I'm not sure I ever recovered from it. Interesting thing about this depression is that when things are actually working for me, I'm OK, but when I fail or dislike a situation, it all comes back.
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Someone's turning back on his promise
"I just remembered something that happened a long time ago."
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