Originally Posted by
desodorante
In my opinion this is WHY you are getting addicted:
-Pr0n gives an instant, massive "reward" to your brain (dopamine)
-You are clearly not getting the excitement you want from your way of life
-You may not really know what you want to do with your life (as in professionally/personally)
-You have free time and nothing to do with it (as you mentioned playing a lot of games)
-Maybe you currently do not have the sexual experiences you are looking for (which you do find in pr0n)
-I do not know how long this has been going on, but it may just be that you are simply going through a "hormonal ride"
And this is how I think you can solve it:
-Practice some sport, or even better: go to the gym, lift some weight. Boxing and martial arts are another option
-Look for a job, just something were you can interact with people or you could look for something in your career path.
-Try to relax a bit in your free time: sleep, drink some relaxing herbal tea (sorry I don't know any plant names in English) or just take a walk
-Try to stay away from your computer, consoles, tv and any handheld devices. They can all create easy to access fantasy worlds/situations/experiences that are just sitting there to make your brain feel like it's real, and feed all your fetishes.
-Try to think about your problem , always ask yourself "why?", "what is it that I am looking for in this?", "what do I really want?" and "what's missing"
-Call a psychologist.
That is what I believe that might be happening and how you can solve it.
However I can't say "Been there done that", but it sounds like you are living a void, superficial, purposeless and decadent life with hardly any effort from your side.
I am saying this without any intention to offend you, just to make you think about it.
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