Okay so this random chick proposed outta nowhere

okay so i was in mall.. bought a tshirt n boots.i was just randomly moving around. A chick came to me and asked time and asked me if she can borrow my phone to make a call.. i gave her my phone. she returned me the phone and asked my name and thanked me. asked what do i do and where i'm from and couple of more questions. And then all of a sudden she said i have left my number in there. we should go out on a date and i smiled and said i'll give it a thought. And we had coffee together and parted ways.

truth is she was beautiful, trendy n hot but for some reason i'm not that interested. okay i've been proposed multiple time before but not like this .. not by a random girl. when i was skinny loser this is all i wished for.. now that it's all happening , i'm not interested at all. isn't it strange? no mater how hard i think i still don't get it why?

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Originally Posted by hellman

now that it's all happening , i'm not interested at all. isn't it strange? no mater how hard i think i still don't get it why?

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its normal, a common thing: people desire something and when they get it, its not how they imagined it to be, they cannot feel satisfied by it, so they lower their demands or expectations, look for something else to desire or vary the original desire

more essentially: the human being unaware of his own unlimited spiritual nature is looking for fulfillment in the wrong place: within the limited materialistic world (capable only of limited results)

other possibilities:
- maybe you want to find her, not the other way around
- maybe there's something about her or her ways that doesn't sit well with you
- it could be that you actually want a girl where you'll need to work hard to get her, in order to think of her as valuable
- or you want to feel a certain unexplainable certainty that she is the one
- or you're actually the 'love at first sight' kind of a guy
or...

Nice bro, real player :D :top:

When I read proposed I somehow assumed to get married, lol.
Hellman is like Hercules~ !

Anyway, maybe you've just matured and just aren't interested because she wasn't right for you. There's nothing wrong with that and it's not because she threw herself at you that it should mean you need to be interested.

hellman .....brad pitt look like ? :P

short answer ..because u haven't done anything ...no chase..is like that dinner already cooked ...it hase not the same felling and taste like hunting the food ...prepare the food...cook the food

strange asociations ..food with girls...but on the psihological thing is kinda the same