cheatos is back

[anon]

I know, right? How can he think I'd make a good love counselor when I don- wait, that's not what you meant? Then you're going to have to believe it, because everything I post here about myself is true

This thread is now officially hijacked.

[Master Razor]

People, relax.For instance: I saw an alien once - now I'm writting my research on it. anon, you'll be the first to read it.

[anon]

[sbfaggot]

SBfreak was in touch with me but that moron deleted his FB.

I check the forum at least once a month.
I mean everyone here well including you of course but I don't think ataching myself to this community again like I used to in the past because I know I will use it as a proxy for actual social life, like I did for example with facebook friends who I did not encounter anymore.
This was one reason why I deleted my fb account the other one being that it's an intrusive piece bloaded javashit mean to manipulate and monetize it's users.
We each have our own lives. I will never see anyone of you in my whole life face to face. I can never really offer anything to you guys since I've come to the conclusion that you can never truly know people just using the online medium.
The process of writing posts on a forum is too controlled for it to permit that kind of information transfer which occurs when you meet someone in person.
Am I the only one thinking like this here ?

P.S: hellman, last time we spoke on fb, you were a buff handsome guy and you're living in a place which I remember was one of the most populated places on earth. Evolutionary males with the highest fitness have always been those who are willing to offer most to the opposite sex and these days I see an online presence is something of a must. Just don't strive to be the mail in a mantis online society.

[anon]

ataching myself to this community again like I used to in the past because I know I will use it as a proxy for actual social life

manipulate and monetize it's users

you can never truly know people just using the online medium

that kind of information transfer which occurs when you meet someone in person

Evolutionary males with the highest fitness have always been those who are willing to offer most to the opposite sex

don't strive to be the mail in a mantis online society

My oh my, that psychology major is really paying off here

I don't care if I'm virtual. I still love you

[sbfaggot]

My oh my, that psychology major is really paying off here

I don't care if I'm virtual. I still love you

lel message too short

[hellman]

I check the forum at least once a month.
I mean everyone here well including you of course but I don't think ataching myself to this community again like I used to in the past because I know I will use it as a proxy for actual social life, like I did for example with facebook friends who I did not encounter anymore.
This was one reason why I deleted my fb account the other one being that it's an intrusive piece bloaded javashit mean to manipulate and monetize it's users.
We each have our own lives. I will never see anyone of you in my whole life face to face. I can never really offer anything to you guys since I've come to the conclusion that you can never truly know people just using the online medium.
The process of writing posts on a forum is too controlled for it to permit that kind of information transfer which occurs when you meet someone in person.
Am I the only one thinking like this here ?

P.S: hellman, last time we spoke on fb, you were a buff handsome guy and you're living in a place which I remember was one of the most populated places on earth. Evolutionary males with the highest fitness have always been those who are willing to offer most to the opposite sex and these days I see an online presence is something of a must. Just don't strive to be the mail in a mantis online society.

if u check once a month ,it doesn't hurt to say a simple Hello. You may not considered these virtual people friends,but some of them may feel the opposite.

Proxy of social life?
this forum has never been a substitute to me as m a pretty busy guy with a large social network n well connected. i come here for some stupid ratio spiking software n stayed here for people mentioned in my sig. I will leave this place as soon as all of these people from my sig will disappear from here.

I will never see anyone of you in my whole life face to face.<b> I can never really offer anything to you guys</b> since I've come to the conclusion that you can never truly know people just using the online medium.

If u were here i would've knocked u out for sure. What's the worst that can happen? i will ask u how r u and how r u doing in your life? How is that holding u back ? U still gotta learn a lot about love n friendship. It doesn't matter we how often we talk, where we are and what are we doing. Only thing matters is knowing that your friend is doing fine in his life.

P.S: hellman, last time we spoke on fb, you were a buff handsome guy and you're living in a place which I remember was one of the most populated places on earth. Evolutionary males with the highest fitness have always been those who are willing to offer most to the opposite sex and these days I see an online presence is something of a must. Just don't strive to be the mail in a mantis online society.

I'm still buff and more handsome than before Now i have a beard. Still living there. I rarely come here. I only com here to check up on the friends i know.

[anon]

I agree with hellman a.k.a. the heart of the forum

[sbfaggot]

if u check once a month ,it doesn't hurt to say a simple Hello. You may not considered these virtual people friends,but some of them may feel the opposite.

I think I made myself misunderstood more or less.
As of my current knowledge, friendship is a social custom which evolved from social bonding required to survive in the earlier days of human evolution. Currently as you can see, it's less about survival ( hopefully you don't need to form groups to protect a hunting ground from another proto-human presence you noticed lately ) and more about social status, social opportunity, leisure time and avoiding loneliness.
The first two sound kind of harsh but you uncousciously select for those. The red flags and green flags internet memes fit here.
I feel like I cannot be a proper "ally". Long ranged short form text based relationships on this scale ( before this letters lmao ) have only existed for a small time compared to the human existance. Me saying hello to you might satisfy that innate need for human contact and you're going to maybe devalue a possible future friendship/ally opportunity. Or may be not but I have to say I'm very aware of my sociopatic nature and this doesn't seem like it.

This might come in contradiction if you have a theist world view and I'm saying this just because I've noticed everytime I talk to someone online I automatically assume they're a male atheist.

Proxy of social life?
this forum has never been a substitute to me as m a pretty busy guy with a large social network n well connected. i come here for some stupid ratio spiking software n stayed here for people mentioned in my sig. I will leave this place as soon as all of these people from my sig will disappear from here.

I was talking about me :)

If u were here i would've knocked u out for sure. What's the worst that can happen? i will ask u how r u and how r u doing in your life? How is that holding u back ? U still gotta learn a lot about love n friendship. It doesn't matter we how often we talk, where we are and what are we doing. Only thing matters is knowing that your friend is doing fine in his life.

That's the whole point. If I was there. Acting in ways which upset you will not bring consequences and that makes according to me the relationship ungenuine.It does not satisfy basic human contact. You will not hit me if I insult your core being and that's not even possible online. I can't actually make you happy except maybe in rare cases through information exchange.
You might get kicked out. You might be starving. You might have health problems. I can do nothing. Real life friends can.

I'm still buff and more handsome than before Now i have a beard.

chad hellman vs virgin sbfreak TM

[hellman]

You might get kicked out. You might be starving. You might have health problems. I can do nothing. Real life friends can.

chad hellman vs virgin sbfreak TM

never underestimate the power of words my friend. They can be a great inspiration and motivation booster. They can bring some1 back from the dead.

[anon]

never underestimate the power of words my friend. They can be a great inspiration and motivation booster. They can bring some1 back from the dead.

"Lazarus hellman, come out".

[slikrapid]

As of my current knowledge, friendship is a social custom which evolved from social bonding required to survive in the earlier days of human evolution. Currently as you can see, it's less about survival ( hopefully you don't need to form groups to protect a hunting ground from another proto-human presence you noticed lately ) and more about social status, social opportunity, leisure time and avoiding loneliness.

darwin (sb)failed and so did all his followers trying to prove (physical) evolution
friendship appears where people have things in common, regardless of whether they're fighting for survival or not

never underestimate the power of words my friend. They can be a great inspiration and motivation booster. They can bring some1 back from the dead.

well said

however, for them to work, the person using them ought to be worthy/able, the receiver needs to be worthy/ready and the circumstances (karmic conditions) need to be aligned, as can be seen in anon's example

[sbfaggot]

darwin (sb)failed and so did all his followers trying to prove (physical) evolution

even if they let's say they did that, evolution of cultural norms can exist in this world without what I think you're referring to by (physical) evolution.
Also.

friendship appears where people have things in common, regardless of whether they're fighting for survival or not

Currently as you can see, it's less about survival

hmmm

however, for them to work, the person using them ought to be worthy/able, the receiver needs to be worthy/ready and the circumstances (karmic conditions) need to be aligned, as can be seen in anon's example

or in non-obscurantist lingo the words need to have as close semantic meaning as possible for the parties involved in communication.

never underestimate the power of words my friend. They can be a great inspiration and motivation booster. They can bring some1 back from the dead.

I think you're approaching this from a more poetic perspective and i don't know if arguing against this is any good since I might seem uncharitable. What do you actually mean ?

scum gang out

[slikrapid]

evolution of cultural norms can exist in this world

current societal norms can be compared to the norms of a chronic addict, whose norms degraded from a previous standard, so in this sense his return to that standard after getting rid of the addiction could be called evolution (improvement), however not like the darwinists like to think: continued improvement from some animalistic beginnings

friendship is a social custom which evolved from...
...required to survive
...in the earlier days of human evolution

these are the hmmm moments and they all stem from darwinian theories, which are a part of our current education (representing a part of the 'chronic addict' norms)

the words need to have as close semantic meaning as possible for the parties involved in communication.

how about a poetic example for 'the receiver needs to be worthy/ready'?

If I speak at one constant volume, at one constant pitch
At one constant rhythm, right into your ear, you still won't hear
You still won't hear
You still won't hear
You still won't hear
You still won't hear
You still won't hear
You still won't hear

[sbfaggot]

current societal norms can be compared to the norms of a chronic addict, whose norms degraded from a previous standard, so in this sense his return to that standard after getting rid of the addiction could be called evolution (improvement), however not like the darwinists like to think: continued improvement from some animalistic beginnings

Can be compared to the norms of a chronic addict in what way ? What are the the norms of a chronic addict ?
You are correlating the concept of evolution with improvement which is wrong, same goes with the ending part of this quote. I am willing to expand but I'm waiting for you to be charitable and clarify your view.

these are the hmmm moments and they all stem from darwinian theories, which are a part of our current education (representing a part of the 'chronic addict' norms)

current theories surrounding evolution are in no way part of education,
Also I feel like I'm being baited. Just because one day the concept of tension proves to be wrong for whatever god forsaken reason that doesn't mean you stop being tense. Again I might be misunderstanding you but it's not like your trying your best not pretending to be wise.