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jacksbi
18.06.10, 16:12
I am getting addicted towards pron somuch these days and also sex having dating with lot of girls can someone give me cool tips to get out of this.i cannot control my mind

Mihai
18.06.10, 16:19
Thinks of anon.That should keep you mind of it:biggrin:

But as for sex, why do you think you are addicted?I mean, you are a guy...

Blocker
18.06.10, 16:21
Why you just don't try to practice a sport!?

Sazzy
18.06.10, 16:21
also sex having dating with lot of girls

yeah right! :P
How many of these were virtual?

tokiodrift1
18.06.10, 16:29
You're on self-destruction-mode. :rolling_eyes:

Try to find some real hobbys.
As Blocker mentioned, sport is always good.

saebrtooth
18.06.10, 16:29
yeah give me all ur girls and stick with the p0rn :lol:

If ur post is serious and it looks like it is, and u are really serious about ur porn addiction and its ruining ur life then look up

Porn Addiction & Masturbation Addiction Help (http://newlifehabits.com/)
Pornography Addiction Recovery and Support (http://www.no-porn.com/)
Breaking Pornography Addiction (http://www.no-porn.com/test.html)

Concentrate on other things apart from porn like getting a genuine partner and not just one night stand may help you. You will find the genuine and real contact with a partner (concenting mind u, although you might have agreed already) is much better than any fixation that a porn hit can give u.

Ease of access is bad too, since the porn trackers are so easy to get into, let them expire as a first step.

If its really affecting ur life/work/school etc then some professional anonymous help will be good.

fakeking
18.06.10, 16:33
Play some game (computer or console) or even find a real time job. Are you still in college, jacksbi?. If yes, find some part-time job or hanging out with fellow real life friend (unless your friend are addicted too :eek3:)

Seriosly addiction is not good at all no matter what kind of addiction is it (excluding cheating :lol:).

Dagon
18.06.10, 16:34
one thing is really good, you see that you have a problem.

one of the best things is to go a self-helping-group, where you can discuss your problems, and you can go to a specialist who can give you good advices

kind regards
Dagon

fakeking
18.06.10, 16:34
Double posted :x. Yeah jack give one of your real life girl to me via fedex (most beatiful one, please). And deleted all of your porn tracker account (you can join again when your addiction is over).

Mihai
18.06.10, 16:36
Play some game (computer or console) or even find a real time job. Are you still in college, jacksbi?. If yes, find some part-time job or hanging out with fellow real life friend (unless your friend are addicted too :eek3:)

Seriosly addiction is not good at all no matter what kind of addiction is it (excluding cheating :lol:).

Or sbi...like some people here...:rolleyes:

anon
18.06.10, 16:43
Thinks of anon.That should keep you mind of it:biggrin:

:huh:

Mihai
18.06.10, 16:47
:huh:

Sorry.I meant think of anon watching porn and playing with his wigle:lol:

anon
18.06.10, 16:47
Oh, but that's exactly what he wants to stop doing... I think.

SBfreak
18.06.10, 16:49
And I thought you were going to be the first to make this kind of thread:lol:

Blocker
18.06.10, 16:50
:huh:


Sorry.I meant think of anon watching porn and playing with his wigle:lol:


Oh, but that's exactly what he wants to stop doing... I think.

You are turning into offtopic

Why you don't give an advice to jacksbi? :tongue:

SBfreak
18.06.10, 16:51
Because he doesn't need any...
He says it's grave,I say it's cool.:wink:
All guys go through this stage.It's only natural don't you think?

Blocker
18.06.10, 16:53
It's natural but he think he's becoming addicted and as far as I know adicction are not so good, is it?

SBfreak
18.06.10, 16:56
He should ask a doctor.I asked mine:tongue:
He's a 68 years old grampa.I talk all kinds of sh!t when I meet him.

tokiodrift1
18.06.10, 16:57
To stay on Topic,
imho the web creates an illusion in your mind, which let you show you all gals as symbols for your weird fantasies.
You need to get some distance to these kind of web-content...
Ever read a book ? :tongue:

SBfreak
18.06.10, 16:57
Books are bad.Porn iz good.

tokiodrift1
18.06.10, 16:59
Books are bad.Porn iz good.
YOU've a really bad influence on jacksbi.. :6238:

Blocker
18.06.10, 17:01
He should ask a doctor.I asked mine:tongue:
He's a 68 years old grampa.I talk all kinds of sh!t when I meet him.


Books are bad.Porn iz good.


YOU've a really bad influence on jacksbi.. :biggrin:

LOL :lool:

Possible solutions:Read a book ,practice a sport or hobby ,ask a doctor

jacksbi
18.06.10, 17:15
Play some game (computer or console) or even find a real time job. Are you still in college, jacksbi?. If yes, find some part-time job or hanging out with fellow real life friend (unless your friend are addicted too :eek3:)

Seriosly addiction is not good at all no matter what kind of addiction is it (excluding cheating :lol:).

i am addicted towards games also play lot of video games have ps2,ps3 watch pron hang out with girls and chat on internet.

becoming bad boy.but cant control my mind.

yes i am still in college will do my PG next 2 years M.Tech.

i have over 2tb of pron on my harddisk which is protected with Universal shield.

Dagon
18.06.10, 17:56
Because he doesn't need any...
He says it's grave,I say it's cool.
All guys go through this stage.It's only natural don't you think?

when is i read some posts of this users here, i want to give a bad reputation point to them.

Its not fair to make fun on people who have a problem.

at jacksbi: you need professional help. Dont think you are crazy if you need there someone. This is the best solution.

Mfg Dagon

crystal
18.06.10, 18:32
your problem is not pr0n , the main problem atm with you is SELF-CONTROL . you do not have self control over yourself and letting it all happen . unless you do not feel it inside yourself to do something about this , nothing in the world can help you . the only thing that can help you with this is yourself , not forums , doctors or medicines . Self-Control is something you may have not exercised yourself in the past , and its why your facing a problem now . try to do everything besides playing games , chatting etc . go outside watch the latest movies , play outdoor sports , join a gym , hang out with your college/school friends and try to enjoy a normal life instead of hanging around in the virtual world and see how automatically these virtual fantasies will "cum" down (pun intended).

hellman
18.06.10, 18:32
I am getting addicted towards pron somuch these days and also sex having dating with lot of girls can someone give me cool tips to get out of this.i cannot control my mind

OMG anon got a competitor but atleast u're not prefer to go solo like him:lol:

well buddy i can't get u out of porn but as for sex just stay away from biitchy type of gals or hand them over to me

join gym and hang out with some friends on a picnic ... avoid drinking and drugs all kindof stuff ...;)

Mihai
18.06.10, 18:38
Actually, go out, drink and go out with girls.It's better than staying home and watching porn:wink:

hellman
18.06.10, 18:49
Actually, go out, drink and go out with girls.It's better than staying home and watching porn:wink:

lol he wants to avoid this not want to stick to this.... by having sex 3 times a day he will become thin as a stick

Mihai
18.06.10, 18:51
lol he wants to avoid this not want to stick to this.... by having sex 3 times a day he will become thin as a stick

:lol:

Ok, so it's better to do it single than with a lady?And if you didn't knew, sex helps you get rid of stress, a lot actually.:top:

slikrapid
18.06.10, 18:53
i am addicted towards games also play lot of video games have ps2,ps3 watch pron hang out with girls and chat on internet.

becoming bad boy.but cant control my mind.

you seem to have a lot of baggage, are you sure you didn't forget to mention any other addictions?

jacksbi
18.06.10, 19:18
you seem to have a lot of baggage, are you sure you didn't forget to mention any other addictions?

thats all

dont drink or smoke and not addicted to drugs.

but pron is making me bad boy.

video games i feel it is good to play

shadowww
18.06.10, 19:19
This topic is all hormones and all ego. :I

hellman
18.06.10, 19:41
:lol:
And if you didn't knew, sex helps you get rid of stress, a lot actually.:top:

i know.. i've read everything about sex:biggrin:
btw it is good sometimes it does'nt means do it like a psychotic freak continously without a rest:biggrin:

Sazzy
18.06.10, 19:49
i know.. i've read everything about sex:biggrin:

reading that makes me feel like reading is where your experience starts and ends :lol:

hellman
18.06.10, 20:07
reading that makes me feel like reading is where your experience starts and ends :lol:

lol u're underestimating me ...:biggrin:
i meant by above line all those stupid silly almighty things that mihai was talkin about i know.....

i always prefer practical knowledge:biggrin:

try to understand the hidden meanings sazzy:ssjgoku:

SBfreak
18.06.10, 20:31
I feel bad for you hellman:tongue:
You got sassy-owned.

Sazzy
18.06.10, 20:36
lol u're underestimating me ...:biggrin:

proof or gtfo :lol:

hellman
18.06.10, 20:36
I feel bad for you hellman:tongue:
You got sassy-owned.

well don't:biggrin:
it happens sometimes u knw..... i did'nt wanted to say directly as i thought seal lion will hit me again:frown:

Vuze-Sbi
18.06.10, 21:51
@Jack

I think you should spend more time with your buddies, do some outdoor sports...It worked for me...Delete your some porn drink some coffee...
I think most of the people doing the same thing when they spend their time all alone.

Sazzy
18.06.10, 22:02
I think most of the people doing the same thing when they spend their time all alone.

wut? I hope not!
Where did I end up now xD

hellman
18.06.10, 22:03
wut? I hope not!
Where did I end up now xD

yes it is the case,.... its the best time pass for them:biggrin:

Sazzy
18.06.10, 22:10
i hope you don't mean the general male by "them"

hellman
18.06.10, 22:20
i hope you don't mean the general male by "them"

then what else do u expect:biggrin:
ofcourse i mean that way

---------- Post added at 21:20 ---------- Previous post was at 21:16 ----------


proof

what do want me to do ... make a porn movie myself with a chick and upload that 4 u:lol:

Sazzy
18.06.10, 22:26
then what else do u expect:biggrin:
ofcourse i mean that way

kinda sad and pathetic :pinch:


what do want me to do ... make a porn movie myself with a chick and upload that 4 u:lol:

hah, you won't ^^

saebrtooth
19.06.10, 04:00
thats all

dont drink or smoke and not addicted to drugs.

but pron is making me bad boy.

video games i feel it is good to play

Not addicted to drugs and taking drugs and not being addicted are two things

An addiction is overwhelming. Having a balanced life is the best way. think about this how much time does porn addiction take from u? 25%, 50% a smaller amount?

Go out with ur friends more, and if u dont have friends make some - real ones. go to family gatherings, social gatherings and dont just stay at home all the time. Use these things to drown out ur time spend doing the nordy things.

Of yes one more thing what did u mean by
"but pron is making me bad boy."

bad? how bad, which way bad?

Making fantasies real without consent bad? If so seek professional help fast

Extraterrestrial
19.06.10, 04:58
Firstly, you need to make the decision of deleting these 2TB of porn because if you didn't, you will always have the temptation to watch some .

Secondly, get rid of all your porn sites accounts in away that you will never be able to get them back, delete your porn bookmarks .....etc .

Thirdly, you need to exercise. Running is a good start before joining a gem. Everyday for one hour would do it, try to make it a habit. I will be a habit if you got used to it for 3-4 weeks.

Fourthly, don't focus on not watching porn, if your mind is focusing on not doing something you've been addicted to, sooner or later you will do it and maybe more than before.

If you failed once, don't be disappointed and keep trying.

One more thing, find other activities to kill your time; reading , hanging out with a friend ......etc.

Regards.

mike_P
14.02.11, 15:39
I find it a bit hard to belive that between "sex with real girls" and "porn" both beeing available to you (by your words) to choose to be addicted to the last one....you usually get addicted to something if you're lacking it and the urge/drige to get some overwhelms you...it beats the whole logic of still beeing addicted if it's in hand's reach ( ; ) ) and you can heave it anytime you want it. So, somewhere, somehow (not pointing fingers) there's an error in your introduction....maybe the sex you had was inferior to what you saw in porn movies and the reality dissapointed you.

Anyway....how much porn can you watch dude ? i watch porn from time to time but sincerely this ain't the 90's anymore when it was out of reach so nothing ever startles me nowadays....not to mention having a beautiful wife in my bed every night.

Mutter
14.02.11, 23:45
Pornaddiction is a sign of depression. Have you checked that before.

And BTW, sports is a great way to overcome depression.

desodorante
15.02.11, 13:47
In my opinion this is WHY you are getting addicted:

-Pr0n gives an instant, massive "reward" to your brain (dopamine)
-You are clearly not getting the excitement you want from your way of life
-You may not really know what you want to do with your life (as in professionally/personally)
-You have free time and nothing to do with it (as you mentioned playing a lot of games)
-Maybe you currently do not have the sexual experiences you are looking for (which you do find in pr0n)
-I do not know how long this has been going on, but it may just be that you are simply going through a "hormonal ride"

And this is how I think you can solve it:

-Practice some sport, or even better: go to the gym, lift some weight. Boxing and martial arts are another option
-Look for a job, just something were you can interact with people or you could look for something in your career path.
-Try to relax a bit in your free time: sleep, drink some relaxing herbal tea (sorry I don't know any plant names in English) or just take a walk
-Try to stay away from your computer, consoles, tv and any handheld devices. They can all create easy to access fantasy worlds/situations/experiences that are just sitting there to make your brain feel like it's real, and feed all your fetishes.
-Try to think about your problem , always ask yourself "why?", "what is it that I am looking for in this?", "what do I really want?" and "what's missing"
-Call a psychologist.

That is what I believe that might be happening and how you can solve it.
However I can't say "Been there done that", but it sounds like you are living a void, superficial, purposeless and decadent life with hardly any effort from your side.
I am saying this without any intention to offend you, just to make you think about it.

mammamia11
09.03.11, 23:07
In my opinion this is WHY you are getting addicted:

-Pr0n gives an instant, massive "reward" to your brain (dopamine)
-You are clearly not getting the excitement you want from your way of life
-You may not really know what you want to do with your life (as in professionally/personally)
-You have free time and nothing to do with it (as you mentioned playing a lot of games)
-Maybe you currently do not have the sexual experiences you are looking for (which you do find in pr0n)
-I do not know how long this has been going on, but it may just be that you are simply going through a "hormonal ride"

And this is how I think you can solve it:

-Practice some sport, or even better: go to the gym, lift some weight. Boxing and martial arts are another option
-Look for a job, just something were you can interact with people or you could look for something in your career path.
-Try to relax a bit in your free time: sleep, drink some relaxing herbal tea (sorry I don't know any plant names in English) or just take a walk
-Try to stay away from your computer, consoles, tv and any handheld devices. They can all create easy to access fantasy worlds/situations/experiences that are just sitting there to make your brain feel like it's real, and feed all your fetishes.
-Try to think about your problem , always ask yourself "why?", "what is it that I am looking for in this?", "what do I really want?" and "what's missing"
-Call a psychologist.

That is what I believe that might be happening and how you can solve it.
However I can't say "Been there done that", but it sounds like you are living a void, superficial, purposeless and decadent life with hardly any effort from your side.
I am saying this without any intention to offend you, just to make you think about it.

you have some good point and other horroble advice, why do you think his porn adection has something to do with his life as he need a job or need to go of his pc or getting new life?

there are many people who are addected to porn, they have very normal life but the thing is its a very bad habit like any other thing. like smoking, it gets harder to quit after many years of smoke, not cuz of the drugs but cuz of the habit that human mind cant let go so easy.

my pice of advice is try to avoid any kind of movies or program rated with a bit of sexual stuff.
its as i said before like amoking, you need to focus your mind to quit this and give it time :)